Rules to Follow to Live a Cozy Life

Claire Small
Authored by Claire Small
Posted Friday, February 14, 2020 - 10:05am

It is a safe bet that no one out there is really leading a stress-free life. We all have our problems, one way or the other. Some are worn down by their jobs and the toll it takes. Others struggle with personal relationships. A few people even have the occasional existential dread every now and then. This is why it is very important that you make an effort to try and lead a more comfortable and relaxing life. It is not easy, and it won’t happen overnight, but the outcome is certainly worth it –– peace of mind.

These are some rules you can follow to live a cozy life. 

Avoid Stresses 

You need to actively avoid stress as much as you possibly can. If something represents a source of concern for you, try to stay away. This also means you need to stop overthinking everything. This is obviously easier said than done, but you have to train yourself not to overthink things to the extent that it would disrupt your peace of mind. You could even try meditation to help you with that.

Form Meaningful Relationships 

No matter how much you say you value solitude and think of yourself as a recluse, we all need relationships. People are simply programmed to want company, even if you sometimes feel like escaping it. This is why you need to form meaningful relationships to lead a cozy life. Go out there and meet new people. Make friends, and keep your current ones. Stay in touch with your family and loved ones of old. These are the people who will really be there for you when things get tough. Besides, there is nothing like enjoying a nice drink with an old friend, reminiscing about the past in all its glory. 

Sleep Well

One of the most important factors for leading a healthy and stress-free life is sleeping well. It affects everything, from your metabolism to your mood and overall mental well-being. Everything changes for the best when you get enough hours of sleep. Make sure you sleep at a reasonable hour and more importantly wake up early. You will feel like you are fresh and ready to start your day, as opposed to sleeping late and hastily making it out of bed because you overslept. Consistency with your sleeping schedule is also important. So, try waking up and sleeping at the same hour every day.

Get a Pet

It is scientifically proven that pets, dogs, in particular, are natural stress relievers. You have no idea how much joy and happiness they can bring into your life, and you will fully understand it only when you get one. As you can see at, dogs are a huge responsibility, yet they make your house a lot cozier and a much warmer place to be in. They are excellent companions who offer something most humans cannot –– unconditional love. Your dog would always be there for you, and just playing with them as well as viewing their joy upon seeing you come home is enough to put you in a much better mood. 

Separate the Personal and the Professional 

This is ultimately the key to happiness and enjoying some peace of mind in your life. Your work should stay at the office and never take it home. This separation is crucial if you want to avoid the stresses of your job influencing your personal life, which they could easily do. When you’re done with your work, go home, and forget about it. Take this time off to enjoy the company of your friends and family, or even just yourself. Unplugging and not allowing your job to interfere with your personal life is why people remain sane and stress-free, and you will have to do it, too.

Indulge in your Passions 

You need to have something that interests you and keeps you excited. Living a cozy life means enjoying and having a passion for certain things. It can be movies, for instance. So, make it your goal to go to the movies once or twice a week, and make sure you watch an episode of your favorite shows every day before you sleep. Other people enjoy reading, so it needs to be a part of your daily routine. And then there is music, which has healing powers and can make everything feel better. Do whatever it is that makes you happy, and keep on doing it.

At the end of the day, every step you take to lead a more relaxing life is worth it. Do whatever it takes to ensure that you don’t have many stresses surrounding you, and your life will be much better for it. 


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