Is Divorce Day caused by Christmas – or is there more to it?

While some start the New Year armed with resolutions to be more active or eat a healthier diet, others are contemplating more substantial changes in the form of a separation from their spouse, says family law specialist, The Family Law Company.

It is commonly reported that family lawyers receive a higher than usual number of enquiries in early January on ‘Divorce Day’, the first Monday back at work. The Christmas break is often held responsible for this increase for various reasons including finances and spending more time together leading to family rows.

Associate Solicitor, Fiona Wadey isn’t convinced. “Blaming Divorce Day on Christmas is a simplistic argument – relationships are more complex than that,” she explained.

“Most family lawyers will agree that the decision to divorce is agonised over by clients, sometimes for years, and it is far from a decision taken lightly. To suggest that clients arrive in your office after an argument over the Christmas turkey is rather to distort the true position and oversimplify the complex nature of relationships.”

For many there will be longstanding issues in their marriage that they wish to resolve, and most will delay this until after Christmas in order to avoid spoiling the festive season for family and friends. Others find a symbolism in making a fresh start at the beginning of a new year, and a wish to make some changes that have previously been deferred.

Fiona added: “It is fair to say that Christmas can add to existing stresses, for example increased arguments after significant financial expense that has added pressure to an already strained budget.”

Even taking the decision to see a family law solicitor does not necessarily lead to divorce proceedings. Some people are purely looking for advice on their circumstances, and the options available to them should they decide to proceed.

“This is borne out by the fact that the divorce rate has been falling in the last few years. Perhaps in truth, Divorce Day is merely a myth created and stimulated by the media.”

For those that do pursue their enquiry past the first appointment, it need not be the start of an acrimonious divorce resulting in family conflict. The Family Law Company, for example, adopts a problem solving approach rather than a combative one, and offers a free initial session to help clients to clarify their thoughts on divorce before taking any action. For more information visit www.thefamilylawco.co.uk