Should I Be a Pallbearer?
A funeral is a time of grief and in these situations people often look for symbols of authority and responsibility. Being a pallbearer personifies this role.
A pallbearer at a funeral is considered a position of honour. But it can also be a difficult time, particularly if you were very close to the deceased.
That you’ve been asked also represents that you’re seen as support to the immediate family too.
Politely decline the offer if you feel it might overwhelm you. Speak with the person who asked you, perhaps suggesting alternative ways you can contribute or...
